🧠 Step 1: One-on-one interview with consultant

After registering as a member, we will arrange a dedicated matchmaker consultant for you to conduct an in-depth interview in person or via video, covering:

  • Emotional experience and current state

  • Personality traits and communication styles

  • Lifestyle and value preferences

  • Desired partner profile and bottom line standards

During the interview, we focus more on your true status and long-term intentions rather than superficial conditions.

πŸ“Š Step 2: Full-dimensional label modeling

After the interview, we will generate a complete user profile based on your answers and the consultant's observations, and annotate multiple dimensions of psychological and behavioral characteristics, including but not limited to:

  • Personality compatibility (introversion, extroversion, emotional expression, etc.)

  • Compatibility between life rhythm and life concept

  • The degree of alignment between career development, cultural background, and family values

  • Dating preferences and communication needs

This tag data is not disclosed to the public and is only used for professional matching systems and consultant recommendations .

🀝 Step 3: Intelligent + manual mixing and matching

We combine the initial screening results of our internal database algorithm with the professional judgment of our matchmaking consultants to select the person with whom you are most likely to have an "emotional connection". Each recommendation is accompanied by:

  • Candidate's basic information and life photos

  • Key Match Reason (Non-Template)

  • Consultant's communication advice and points to note

You have the right to freely decide whether to start communication . We never force or urge you and respect your pace.

πŸ’¬ Step 4: Arrange the first meeting and follow up on feedback

If both parties reach a preliminary intention, the platform will assist in arranging a safe and comfortable first meeting (offline or online), and collect feedback from both parties after the meeting to continuously optimize subsequent matching.

πŸ” Step 5: Dynamic Adjustment and Continuous Service

Every interaction and every feedback will serve as an important basis for us to adjust your matching direction. Consultants will maintain regular communication with you to help you continuously clarify your needs and get closer to the right person .

🌸 We do not guarantee "success on the first try".

But we promise that every recommendation is based on real understanding, rejecting assembly line matching and cold system labels.

In XiAi, every encounter is worth looking forward to.

For more information about the matching process or consulting services, please add WeChat: hive-group